CountryGentleman
Basics
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Location:
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I am looking for:Woman
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Zip Code:36601
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Age:54
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Height:5 ft. 8 in.
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Body:Athletic
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Ethnicity:White
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Education:Associates Degree
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Job:Computers Hardware
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Has Kids:No
ABOUT
I want someone that understands that communication is the life blood of the relationship. I want someone who will not put up emotional barriers when I seek to understand her thoughts and feelings, but rather will communicate with me intimately and candidly.
I believe in establishing a strong friendship first above all else.
Having a monogamous relationship where the chemistry and physical attraction is always important too, but I need a forever partner that puts in as much effort as I do. I don't want to be with someone that just goes through the motions of becoming friends so they can just get to the sex part and then slack on the friend part and all the other things that are so important that makes the wheels turn in the relationship. I do realize it's not about finding the "perfect person", but knowing how to work together through obstacles without wearing feelings on our sleeves. Sensitivity is a good thing, but not to the point where your partner has to walk on eggshells from being afraid of offending you....that will not be good for communication. I have put a lot of thought into all this and I know what I want and what I don't want.
True love is all enduring and is patient. If that so called love can just evaporate into thin air " POOF" like that, then it was never real love in the first place....so please don't start telling me how much you love me when you don't even know me yet. I want someone that thinks I am worth investing the time and effort it takes to get to know me because I am a giver and you will get the time and effort from me...I just want reciprocation is all.
If we get to that level of mutual commitment my forever enjoys just talking, laughing, cuddling, kissing, working in kitchen together, taking time for ourselves to share our deep thoughts and our opinions with one another. I want us to be so close knit that our thoughts and mind can make mental connection so strong that it is like making mental love and our souls too so when we add our bodies to the mix later on ...our union will be earth shattering ! Never had that before, but this is my goal and my intent for each of us to bring our complete happiness to the table and join two different complete fulfilled beings melding into something beautiful that can stand the test of time.
primitive camping, telling jokes, laughing, pro-2nd Amendment, gardening,humor, kayaking, grilling. cooking, baking, fishing,herbs
What I am looking for
My match likes to do things outside with her mate as a couple. Gardening together, hiking new unexplored trails, kayaking creeks and rivers, fishing, camping, boating, traveling to islands on a set of wave runners and camping out on sand bars along the way. These are just a few things I have done and would like to do in the future. I am into herbal medicine, nutrition and supplements.
Where should we start to build the base to become best friends > input your ideas
What is your definition of best friends?
Do you believe in soul mates?
If so then what does it define?
I know we don't have to agree on everything, but the more we agree on the less opportunity we have to argue. Sooner or later it will happen and we will disagree on things... so it's how you handle yourself and how you act and communicate through that disagreement that makes all the difference in the world.
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